Deciding to get reading help for your child is a big, loving step, and once you've made it, you're faced with a flood of options. Big franchises, learning centers, college students, apps, neighborhood tutors. How do you know who will actually help your child? Here's a straightforward guide from someone on the inside.
Why the right fit matters so much
Not all tutoring is created equal. For reading specifically, and especially for struggling readers or kids with dyslexia, the method the tutor uses is the single biggest predictor of whether your child improves. A warm, well-meaning tutor using the wrong approach can spend months with little to show for it. The right approach, used consistently, can be transformative. So this decision is worth a little homework.
The questions to ask any reading tutor
When you talk to a prospective tutor, don't be shy. A good one will welcome these questions:
- "What's your training in teaching reading?" Look for real, specialized training, LETRS, Orton-Gillingham, UFLI, a reading endorsement, or a relevant degree. "I'm great with kids" is lovely but not enough.
- "Do you use structured literacy / the science of reading?" This is the big one. A knowledgeable tutor will light up at this question and explain explicit, systematic phonics instruction. Vague answers are a flag.
- "How do you figure out what my child needs?" The right answer involves some kind of assessment, not just diving into generic worksheets.
- "How will we know it's working?" Look for someone who tracks progress and communicates with you.
- "What does a typical session look like?" You want structure, multisensory practice, and review, not just "we'll read together."
Green flags to look for
- Specialized reading training they can name and explain.
- An assessment-first approach.
- Clear, jargon-free communication with you, the parent.
- Patience, warmth, and genuine liking of kids (yes, this matters too).
- Honesty about timelines, no one credible promises overnight miracles.
Red flags to watch for
- Heavy reliance on guessing strategies (using pictures and context to "figure out" words).
- One-size-fits-all programs that don't adapt to your child.
- No clear explanation of their method or training.
- Pressure tactics or huge contracts before they've even met your child.
- Promises that sound too good to be true. Real reading growth is steady, not magic.
Franchise vs. independent specialist
Big learning centers can be convenient and have brand recognition, but tutors there are often generalists rotating among many subjects and students, and your child may not get the same person each week. An independent reading specialist typically offers deeper expertise in reading specifically, consistent one-on-one attention, and a personal relationship with your family. For a child who's struggling, that consistency and specialization usually win.
Online or in person?
Both can work beautifully, what matters is the quality of instruction, not the format. Choose whatever lets your child get consistent, expert sessions that fit your family's life. Many specialists, myself included, offer both.
The bottom line
You're looking for the combination of expertise and warmth: someone trained in the science of reading who also makes your child feel safe and capable. Trust your questions, trust your gut, and don't settle for vague answers when it comes to your child's reading.
If you're searching in the Gresham or Portland area, I'd be glad to be one of your conversations. As a LETRS- and UFLI-trained reading specialist with my M.Ed., I use structured-literacy instruction, online and in person, and I'm always happy to talk through what your child needs, even if that turns out to be someone else. Your child deserves the right fit.
Debbie Sexton, M.Ed. | NorthStar Tutoring
Call or text 503-809-4120 | northstar.dksxtn@gmail.com
Reading, dyslexia, and early-literacy tutoring for Gresham, Boring, and the greater Portland, OR area.
Ready to help your child become a confident reader? I offer one-on-one reading tutoring â including dyslexia tutoring and early-literacy support for grades K–3 â in person around Gresham and Portland or online across Oregon. As a LETRS-trained reading specialist, I’d love to help. Call or text (503) 809-4120 for a free consultation.